Advice from Ellevest's team of financial experts on what to do with your equity compensation that I wish I had received.

Boy, I wish I’d had a good financial advisor to understand my equity compensation when I was younger.
Sure, I made a lot of the right moves on my own — negotiated it on my hire to significantly increase the offer, renegotiated it every year.
But then I made the absolute classic equity compensation mistake: I held most of it after it vested.
After all, I wanted to be seen as loyal and supportive of the company I worked for. And a lot of the executives who had come before me had made a lot of money by holding onto their stock after it vested; this concentrated bet had worked out for them. And I was in a senior role, so I had an insider’s perspective on all of the good things that were happening at the company.
Mostly, this was classic behavioral finance: I valued something I owned more than I would if I hadn’t owned it. You may have heard of it; it’s called the Endowment Effect. And I thought my position at the company meant I was “smarter” than the market.
(But I sure wasn’t smart enough to see the subprime crisis coming. And that wiped out a lot of the value of my equity.)
Our financial advisors at Ellevest see this all the time: Women who don’t want to sell their equity because they don’t want to be seen as disloyal to their company. Or they don’t want to sell because the stock price is up, so they extrapolate that it will continue to increase. Or they don’t want to sell because the stock is down, so they don’t want to miss the rebound. And, of course, they don't want to sell because they don’t want to pay taxes.
Looking back, I now know that my biases ultimately sabotaged my chance to have the best possible outcome for me, my goals, and my values. And isn’t having the best possible outcome with your equity something women really do want?
To help you move from “no’s,” “not nows,” and “don’t wants” to feeling certain you’re going after what you want, here’s advice from our team of financial experts on what to do with your equity compensation that I wish I had received:
Equity compensation is complicated. And so is knowing what moves are the right ones to make with it. The decision to hold or sell could be the difference that makes your future play out the way you want it to — or not. That’s why I want you to feel more comfortable negotiating through this area than I was.

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